My Grandmother and my Aunt also died very recently. I don't feel like posting about any of it, but I will say I do hate losing family members. I'm sorry you guys weren't able to make the funerals. They are a nice way of saying your last goodbye, in a way. I also find that funerals are happier than they might seem. Being reminded that that person lived a full life, filled with people who they cared about (and who in turn cared about them) is a great feeling. I've heard the term "Celebration of Life" used to refer to funerals, and I like to agree with that label. It's sad, but it's also a bit refreshing to realize that people will leave you but will always be remembered.

Sorry to hear about your losses.