Well DF, I know you've been wanting to hear my opinion, so I've been thinking about this and gathering my thoughts, so as not to say anything rash or hasty.

Deciding what to do with your life is a fairly important decision, that will shape who you are and determine many of your future paths. Some people randomly drift to whichever path seems good at the time, but these decisions should be given a lot of consideration. I know that you have been thinking a lot about this, and that you have the support of your family and friends, which is important.

To be honest, I wasn't a supporter of the military at all for quite a long time. The turning point for me was when I went to see a talk by Romeo Dallaire, who was the head of the UN forces in Rwanda during the genocide, who could have stopped it, but was ordered to stand by and not interfere. I started to realize that in order for developing countries to grow, and for standards of life to improve, there has to first be peace and safety. I wish there wasn't a need for military forces to be used, but sometimes it's the only way. A military can either be used to oppress, kill and destroy, or to protect and build. I don't envy those in military positions. It's an overwhelming responsibility, and knowing that the lives of others rest in your hands is a frightening thing.

To you, DF, I want to say, don't make light of this responsibility. Even in the lowliest military position, you will have an impact on the lives of others around you. Never let go of your integrity. Even in the bleakest situations, be a person who will protect others and uphold justice. Don't compromise on what you know is right. This is my hope for you. No matter what, I'll be standing behind you. Know that wherever you end up, there will be a KitKat praying for you.