Public it is
My baby daughter has her mum's legs, dunno if she has her boobs yet.
It's also not really about "saying nigger", it's him saying in private "So I saw this guy in the back street drunk and I tried to rob him. Robbed his black ass." It's the fact that he's basically admitting to attempting criminal activities in earnest, without regret. That's what the issue is.
It's not about talking dirty. It's about admitting you tried to force yourself on an unconsenting person and don't give a fuck.