You make some incredibly valuable points. First off Haku's mother did not expect him to inherit her abilities because he was not a pure blood for lack of a better term, she apparently had not even considered the possibility that Haku might be able to inherit her bloodline limit without his father also possessing it.Originally Posted by AssertnFailure
The Uchiha’s bloodline limit seems to be in another league when compared to others. With the Hyuuga and Kaguya clans it appears that their Kekkei Genkai is a given and is automatically acquired by their children from either or both parents. The Uchiha’s abilities appear to necessitate both parents to be Uchiha’s similar to sickle cell anemia and many other genetic diseases but the offspring are only born with the potential to awaken the Sharingan. The awakening itself has special requirements, after the initial awakening there appear to be other requirements for each tomoe as evidenced by Sasuke in his battles with Haku, Lee and Naruto respectively. When the Sharingan is finally fully awakened then there are other special requirements that need to be met before the Mangekyo Sharingan can be acquired. The Sharingan also seems to be the only doujutsu that allows the user to turn it off when not in battle and the eye then returns to a “normal” state.
Kekkei Genkais as well as the Sandaime Kazekage and the Shodai Hokage’s abilities are all the result of genetic mutation and eventual evolution a subject which immensely interests me as I myself suffer from a yet to be named illness that appears to be the result of random genetic mutation within my family although I posses no superhuman abilities or positive side effects.