@Kraco - No, I'm only saying that what Kei did is not arrogant according to the definition. Just remember the context of the situations given as example. Was he ever really out of hand when he spoke? I bet even you thought that in most cases his words were deserved. If he starts screaming that he is better than everyone for no reason, then even that would be arrogant from any (including my) viewpoint. I've never used it as a meter for skill, but rather, I'm saying that the judgment of behavior should be in consideration of that person's worth. Either way, it is a very limited definition, and it should be taken as it is. I never generalized as you think I am. Check the previous posts if you doubt me. EDIT: In fact, I even conceded "common usage" to animus (automatically implying that mine is a minority opinion, even if it is based on the original definition from the dictionary).
@Ryll - That is again, another valid way of understanding arrogance. I'm only saying it is not the only way. In my definition, the way Hikari acted was not arrogant at all, because it was justified from her experiences, but even Kei disagrees with me there. If you disagree with my definition then that is that. It simply has no bearing with the conclusion regarding whether Kei is arrogant or not, since we can't even agree on the premise.
This definition is indeed quite elitist, but it does not justify being an ass. It merely shows that some people can afford to talk with more pride because they have the stuff to back it up. Talking (or acting) without being able to back it up is arrogance. I know its quite unrealistic in application (while the standard Ryll gave probably has the most usefulness in actuality), since as Ryll said there is no way to objectively judge the situation in reality, but in anime, we are given a basically omniscient look at the story and events which enables us to do just that.
@animus - you misunderstood what I said about the standard. It doesn't mean that he can't be judged at all. What I was trying to address was the fact that you simply assumed that he was arrogant just because he talked to Hikari that way which is almost always the case (in real life), but not when you are practically perfect. That is all it meant, so don't stretch it out.
Kei doesn't think he is better than a certain demographic (or all) of the school. He knows it. He is number one after all. That's not overestimation. It's quite an accurate estimate, I think.
EDIT: I know, I know. This thing has gone on for too long, and I apologize for that. This will be my last post on this (since it is already this out of hand, I'm even getting neg reps for prolonging it, apparently). Its not that big of a deal, and I simply wanted to get my opinion across. I hope this post clarifies everything.
EDIT: @animus below - haha, I know, but someone did, and that someone has a point.![]()