Ah, one last thing, a conversation held earlier today (not in #gotwoot) that relates somewhat to my earlier post and may or may not be helpful.


<+bookfreakluver> so I have a question for any males here
<+bookfreakluver> do you ever think your penis looks weird?
<IFHTT> lol
<IFHTT> not really
<IFHTT> i've compared it to the way other penii look and it has it's own style
<IFHTT> but i don't consider it weird
<+bookfreakluver> Alright, then another question
<+bookfreakluver> considering that I might think that they look weird simply because I haven;'t had one all my life to look at everyday, do you ever think vaginas look weird?
<+bookfreakluver> haven't*
<IFHTT> hmm
<IFHTT> i think i've been kinda desensitezed to it through copious amounts of porn and stuff, but for the sake of answering the question, i suppose
<IFHTT> desensitized*
<+bookfreakluver> Hmm.
<+bookfreakluver> I wonder how many men might think subconciously "that looks weird" while looking at an porn image intended to be arousing
<Sapphi> i think vagina (my own) and penises look awesome
<IFHTT> oh well i think it varies from make and model
<IFHTT> i see some vaginas that fit in with the "once you've seen one, you've seen them all" standardized look
<IFHTT> but occasionally you see one that is like WHOA WHAT'S GOING ON DOWN THERE
<+bookfreakluver> lol
<+bookfreakluver> Hmm
<IFHTT> but i suppose the same could be said about penises in that context
<+bookfreakluver> Well I just spent the last 15 min looking at vaginas and penises
<IFHTT> lol
<+bookfreakluver> and have come to a conclusion
<+bookfreakluver> we have fucking weird genitalia
<IFHTT> lol
<Sapphi> we have weird faces too
<+bookfreakluver> true
<+bookfreakluver> I wonder if this might be why we have so many pedos
<Sapphi> what -doesn't- look "weird"?
<Sapphi> a circle?
<+bookfreakluver> because they (genitalia) don't seem to start looking weird until we hit puberty
<+bookfreakluver> well, sapphi,
<+bookfreakluver> as for what doesn't look weird, nothing really
<+bookfreakluver> I suppose it might be a case of looking too closely for too long
<+bookfreakluver> similar to when one repeats a word over and over for long enough that it sounds funny, I could be focusing on it too much
<+bookfreakluver> and thinking
<+bookfreakluver> "this is supposed to be arousing?"
<+bookfreakluver> to the point where I've just begun to find them silly-looking
<IFHTT> lol
<IFHTT> like a windsock hanging off the side of statue
<+bookfreakluver> heh
<+bookfreakluver> I think this might be part of why porn just makes me laugh instead of wet
<+bookfreakluver> it's just trying too hard
<IFHTT> i lol at porn as well
<IFHTT> though i suppose men are a little easier to sexually arouse
<+bookfreakluver> and that mixed in with the idea that one has to get aroused at porn, just makes it all too forced for me to appreciate it
<IFHTT> hmm
<+bookfreakluver> Truly, I prefer more subtle actions that inspire anticipation rather than immediate gratification
<+bookfreakluver> For instance
<Sapphi> i think saff should get in on teh thread too
<+bookfreakluver> link her then
<+bookfreakluver> anyhoo
<+bookfreakluver> I was kissing a guy once, we had been going out for a month but hadn't had sex yet. It was getting pretty heavy and hot, and we knew where it was going
<+bookfreakluver> But there was still part of me that seemed somewhat detached, and just analysing the whole situation
<Sapphi> oOoOO keep going bfl
<+bookfreakluver> I was pretty much "ok, we'll prolly have sex" and I was pleased
<+bookfreakluver> But now I want to bring up another time
<+bookfreakluver> Where I was flirting with this woman
<Sapphi> porn does not turn me on AT ALL
<Sapphi> i watch it for amusement purposes only
<+bookfreakluver> I had no clue really if she was interested in women, but she seemed amicable to mild flirting
<Sapphi> yay flirting
<+bookfreakluver> and I remember we were laughing at something she said, and she reached out to stroke my neck
<Sapphi> oh snaps
<+bookfreakluver> and I swear to god I felt this huge bolt of heat just flow down my spine to between my legs
<Sapphi> awesome
<Sapphi> i would feel a huge bolt of horror
<Sapphi> WTFFFF I HAVE BEEN VIOLATED, AGAIN
<+bookfreakluver> And I was feeling anticipation, nervousness, thinking "Holy hell did she do that on purpose? Is she interested?"
<Sapphi> FFFFFFFFFFFFFFF
<+bookfreakluver> Sapphi, lol
<+bookfreakluver> Anyway
<+bookfreakluver> the reason I bring up these two seperate experiences
<+bookfreakluver> is that in the situation with the man, my arousal was a slow burn, steadily getting there with help
<Sapphi> are you explaining why girls are sexy and awesome?
<+bookfreakluver> but with the woman, it came as a surprise, and was more powerfel as a result
<+bookfreakluver> nah
<Sapphi> i've felt the same "jolt" with guyz :s
<Sapphi> it doesn't help that i'm extremely perverted
<+bookfreakluver> I'm just explaining that unexpected sexy stuff works more than expected stuff
<Sapphi> and have an ab fetish
<+bookfreakluver> lol
<+bookfreakluver> I dunno
<+bookfreakluver> It's like
<+bookfreakluver> with the guy, I felt like it was a situation in which we were both expected to get aroused
<+bookfreakluver> and that kinda put me off
<+bookfreakluver> but with the girl
<+bookfreakluver> what she did came outta nowwhere
<+bookfreakluver> so I was caught by surprise
<Sapphi> <3 unexpected sexy stuff
<+bookfreakluver> indeed
<Sapphi> sometimes you can get unexpected sexy stuff when yuo're already expecting sexy stuff
<+bookfreakluver> also true
<Sapphi> and the person is like hey i'm sexier than you think i am and you're like WHOA
<saffronlover> atm i'm researching something a bit serious and all this sexy talk will make me all distracted and flushed
<+bookfreakluver> lol saffronlover
<+bookfreakluver> come join us in our smexy convo
<+bookfreakluver> y'know
<+bookfreakluver> rather than a actual reply
<+bookfreakluver> I might just post this entire conversation on gotwoot as an adjutant-yet-related aspect of your post
<Sapphi> haha post it
<Sapphi> XP