Naruto Shippuuden Episode 206

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That's just stupid. She's TRYING to get him to stop throwing his life away chasing Sasuke.

Sai basically told her like two episodes ago that a promise she forced Naruto to make when they were dumb kids is basically consuming his entire life. She's trying to get him to abandon that stupid promise.

How is that being self-centered?

Exactly because she is trying to get him to abandon his promise with no consideration to how it affects him. Narutos way of the ninja is to never go back on his word. she now asks him to break his nindo.
she believes that Naruto is chasing sasuke because of his promise to her, and if she releases that promise he will stop chasing sasuke.
thats about as self centered as they come.