Quote Originally Posted by Assertn View Post
Heh, I was actually complemented recently about how easily I'm able to maintain an objective stance in most disputes that came up at my old job. I'm generally more inclined to play devil's advocate than to become personally involved in a debate.
This could easily be interpreted as apathy or lack of commitment/engagement. Fine lines.

But yeah, as a guy, saying you're ok with two guys being gay together isn't socially acceptable. One time I told a guy he wasn't bad looking (trying to help his confidence) and he stopped talking to me for a few weeks. Apparently he thought I was making a pass at him, though I've shown no other gay tendencies besides long conversations with a gay guy at work.