I can see if the guy with the rod isn't good then it would make things fishy, but if the virgin just has to lay there and enjoy it, that's one less complication. I personally didn't like it when a more experienced girl told me what to do and how, basically treating me like her live-action dildo. Probably hurt my confidence with her impatience.
“For God will not permit that we shall know what is to come... those who by some sorcery or by some dream might come to pierce the veil that lies so darkly over all that is before them may serve by just that vision to cause that God should wrench the world from its heading and set it upon another course altogether and then where stands the sorcerer? Where the dreamer and his dream?”