That's pretty much the gist.
No, I'm saying neither of you respect women. They are obviously much worse than you, but the fact that you don't respect women still applies.
Again, to go back to the "stealing from a register and robbing a bank" example. Both of them are "thieves", but obviously the bank robber is a much worse version of a thief.
What you are saying is basically, "I don't rob banks, I don't rob convenience stores, I don't steal cars, I don't take people's wallets. I DO take fruit from fruit stands, but I'm not a thief." You ARE a thief though, because it only takes ONE of those things to make you a thief. You aren't NOT a thief just because you don't do MOST of those things.
And nobody is saying he did. Do you not know what the fuck an analogy is?