I'm not judging how Lilia got knocked up. She tempted Paul, he went for it. We know he's a womanizer and a bit of a scumbag. We kind of got the impression that she lusts after Paul before, it just wasn't so easy to connect the dots before.

But he obviously "sexually assaulted" Lilia when they were both younger. Even if she "liked it."

The fact that you're trying to downplay it is kinda fucked up.