Quote Originally Posted by shinta|hikari View Post
Roxy didn't raise or teach or even interact with Rudy for a long time as a child. She never did anything to shape him into her ideal partner, nor had the thoughts of doing so.
Even if it wasn't her intention, it still happened. The guy literally worships her panties.

You can have an enormous impact on someone without meaning to, especially when they're extremely young and still developing. And that creates the kind of power imbalance you were talking about. Not physical, but emotional. Even much later in life they could still have an attachment to you that isn't completely rational.

That's why, if you've known someone as a child you should probably just...not. In general. Like, go find someone else. There's a whole world full of people out there. You don't gotta fuck family members, friends' partners, people you knew as kids, etc.

Again though, this doesn't doesn't actually apply to Rudy. Because he's actually in his 40s. But, again, they don't know that.