Quote Originally Posted by MFauli View Post
We don't need to make this a long debate, but I don't understand why I cannot express my opnion on it without someone attacking me.
Because you express your opinion in absolutes (emphasis mine).
[It is] a totally different person that cannot be explained away with "well, she grew up and changed".
An absolute statement being: assertion by the author that some fact or idea is absolutely, undeniably true

If you make declarative statements like this, expect an appropriate response in kind. When you double-down, so will others, because now you've started a discussion about something specific. It's not an attack, it becomes a debate.