I don't agree with that. Consider if you're looking at some chick from behind that you don't know but she has a cute butt, then she turns around and you realize it's a 14 year old. That doesn't make you a pedo and that doesn't mean you're lying to yourself. We all have urges and fetishes that we might not be proud to admit. The difference is that you don't act on them like an animal would, you control yourself like a human should.