True... but the keyword in your post is "grudge"....

Some of the crew where talking of how good the weather is and talking as if nothing happened... did Shinn explode on them like he did on Cagalli? I dont think so... which makes him a hypocrite


Edit:

And I'm not complaining that Shinn is giving her a hard time... I'm complaining that DESTINY is taking Cagalli out of character for not fighting back since in Seed she was always quick to the punch and always had backup for what she was saying... in here she just keeps her mouth shut...

But Shinn can complain all he wants... he talks about not understanding... when he doesnt understand Cagalli's position either..