So I had sex with a guy

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C-can you elaborate on this?

I'm not following why hating yourself prevents you from telling your family, especially if you are sure they'd be accepting of you.

To come out as gay is to see whether your family and friends would accept you for who you are. I have little doubt that they would. The harder task is to accept yourself first.

To be fair, woman-woman is a little less weird than man-man.

I already quoted this post without addressing this element but allow me to go back to it. Why, exactly, is this? The New Testament exhortation by Paul against same-sex relationships condemns women as equally as men (and condemns anyone having sex at all only slightly less vociferously). Are you just trolling me or are you actually suggesting that modern man's desire to see two ladies going at it (a desire crafted pretty much entirely by pornography) makes it more natural than two guys?