So I had sex with a guy

[UChessmaster]

Well, technically "I'm on top" did not clearly answered the question of who penetrated who... so...

Top refers to the guy that penetrates, Buttom or Bot is the guy that gets penetrated.

If you're a top, did he actually have to do anything? How can he be clueless when he need only grin and bear it?

Sex is not just penetration, having sex with him was like having sex with a table, he wouldn`t move an inch unless i specifically asked him, he had absolutelly 0 initiative. It was just plain boring.