I don't think we're on the same page here. The "game" phrase came in with Ani's comment.


I don't think there are specific rules to anything, there are choices and circumstances. Let's say for instance a couple (married or not) who is has been in love with eachother and wants to spends the rest of their lives together happens to one day decide to get breast implants for whatever reason (to spice things up, to make both of them happy) I say go for it. Not something I would choose but it's their choice. Or a woman has breast cancer and had to have an operation to save her life, if it makes her feel a little bit normal again, I am all for it, not that it is my choice or in anyway my business, but I definitely understand. Or someone has an accident and so on.

What I don't agree with is the pressure some woman face to have bigger breast or believing bigger breast means being more beautiful and sexually appealing because that is what the society or images, movies, advertisements we see everyday says or just having them because. It is their choice and certainly non of my business, but what's wrong with being natural? To me a woman's beauty and sex appeal is more than just her looks.

To me it, it says something about someone's personality and self esteem. One that is generally associated with being materialistic and superficial. But again that is just my opinion.

I do have a problem with sixteen year old's getting breast implants. They are still growing both mentally and physically and their parents and "doctors" should have better sense. But then again, that says a lot about the society one lives in.

Don't really know why breast implants would get more attention that the cheating article ( although, I do find the research base quite idiotic and pinpoint, which undergrad student (male or female) do you know that doesn't want to sleep with everything in sight, minus the few exceptions of course) but hey oh well.