Definitions of words are what do that. You either fit the definition of something, or you don't.
If you only murder a few people, you don't get to say you're "in-between" because of all the people you also didn't murder. You are still a murderer.
Thinking that it is okay to look at women naked without their consent means you don't respect women. Straight up, that is what that means. And your attitude is basically "Hey, at least I'm not okay with raping them! That practically makes a feminist!"